Tag: life lessons

It is impossible to become great at anything without a lot of practice. None of the best rock-n-roll bands were great when they began.

As I age I often wonder to myself does anything get better. There is – your competition shrinks in sports. May you win as you grow old.

The author recalls a costly mistake of ignoring red flags when purchasing airline tickets and emphasizes the importance of recognizing various red flags in life. He categorizes them into actual, romantic, and financial red flags, providing personal anecdotes and advice. His message stresses vigilance in identifying and responding to these signals to avoid regret and make better decisions.

The writer reflects on their struggles with pacing both in running and life, sharing experiences from races and a poignant sermon by Andy Stanley on the importance of patience. They emphasize that success comes from balancing speed with endurance, advising against sprinting through life without considering the long road ahead.

In February 2018, financial strain due to holiday spending, tuition, a car gift, and Valentine’s expenses made budgeting difficult. The author, who pays alimony and child support, reflects on past desires for revenge against his ex-wife. He realizes revenge is harmful and advises living passionately and richly to overcome bitterness.

Laying on my floor last March, I reflected on my life’s challenges, including breakups and my dad’s poor health. Inspired by Brene Brown’s book on the emotional solitude of the ‘wilderness,’ I embraced bravery in tough times. Despite setbacks, I pursued a better path. The wilderness, though daunting, can be navigated with courage.

The author’s dad showed alarming signs one unusual Saturday when the author unexpectedly visited his parents due to a breakup. Recognizing the urgent symptoms, the author called 911, saving his dad’s life as he needed a pacemaker. This incident led to heightened situational awareness, prompting the author to emphasize the importance of paying attention to unexpected encounters.